If I can make it there….

I’d like to speak to the manager!!!

Hi.  

I lied.  

I didn’t post in NYC.  I brought my computer.  But I didn’t take it out of the bag once.  

I was having too much fun, and was exhausted when I got home every night.  

However, the fog seems to have lifted.  

It was gone by the time we crossed into Manhattan last Monday.  

Last week was a whirlwind. 

11 shows in 7 days.  

Lots of great meals.  

One fucking amazing meal. 

Lots of great walks.  I’m very grateful for my new knee.  

One of the best afternoons I had was sitting in Central Park, people watching.  And by people watching, I mean watching shirtless boys jog by.    

It really was a great week. 

As for the shows.

They all had merit, and in case you haven’t noticed in the 15 years I’ve been posting about theater, I rarely ever tell you a show is bad.  Too many people, work too hard, for me to post publicly that it’s not worth seeing. 

That being said.

Hell’s Kitchen.  Wonderful.  Those actors sang their asses off, and the voices.  Amazing.  We saw it the day the Tony’s were announced so there was a special energy in the room.  I actually made Adam wait by the stage door with me, which I never, ever do.  But then it rained before the leads made their way out.  

The Notebook.  Oh, my goodness. I had never seen the movie, or read the book.  Had no idea what it was about.  I boo hooed through the whole show.  Although.  Not as loudly as the girl sitting next to us.  You’d have thought her mother had just died.  

Mother Play.  Disturbing.  Deep.  So well-acted.  But hard to watch as a gay man.  

Suffs was fun.  And I love that it will have a long, long, long life after NYC in regional theaters, colleges and universities, and it’s only a matter of time till a high school produces it.  

The rest were all fun and I’m glad I saw them.  But these moved me the most.  

It did feel good to pull into the driveway last night though.  

We were glad to be home. 

It was weird driving each way.  When we left yesterday, NYC was in full spring mode.  It was green from the rain on Sunday.  Trees had leaves.  There were annuals in pots on the streets.  

As we drove north, things became less green, until we got to Maine, where the trees have buds on them, but most do NOT have leaves yet.  

We also saw a few famousish people.  

J. Harrison Ghee saw Hell’s Kitchen a few seats down from us. 

Judy Davis sat behind us at lunch.   

LaChanze.  

Micheal Grief.  

Ronnie Larson.  

Patti Lupone was in line with us when we saw Oh Mary.  She sat in the orchestra, we were in the balcony.  

And we saw Rollerena, a NYC personality if there ever was one.  

When you are a New Yorker you don’t bother famous people, and you definitely don’t ask for an autograph or take a photo.  So.  I have no proof of these encounters.  

We also used my friend David’s theory on parking tickets while in the city.  We chose NOT to move our car for alternate side of the street parking.  The first time we did NOT get a ticket.  The second time we did.  It was worth the price of the ticket to not have to pay to park, and to not have to get up and move the car.  

All in all it was a great trip.  

But.  

It feels good to be home. 

I feel better than I did before I left.  

And.  

That’s what I’m most grateful for.  

Cabin in the woods (oooh) –A cabin in the woods (yeah)

I’d like to speak to the manage!!!

Wonder of wonders, miracle of miracles-.

It’s a Saturday night.  

I’m seated at a desk, in lovely Norway, Maine, where I have escaped the clutches of the big city and am relaxing with a bourbon and a soda, water in the middle of the woods.  

It’s the first time in three years, I’ve been able to take a Saturday off, without using a vacation day.  

We started planning this adventure last July.  

Back story.

When Adam and I first moved to Maine, every year or so, our friend group, which is 16 lesbians, and the two of us, would plan a getaway.  Most of these trips were in the winter.  We’d rent a lodge in the middle of nowhere, caravan in, and spend two to three days hibernating in the woods.  

One of the most fun trips was watching The Shining, in a mountain lodge, in the middle of a snow storm, with only a fire to light the room.  Super scary.  

We, however, have not had the opportunity to get away since Covid for a multitude of reasons.  

Our friends decided last summer to change that.  

The planning commenced, the air bnb was secured, the meals were planned and here we are.  

There are four couples this time, in a 1790’s farmhouse, 5 miles out of town, on a snow covered hill.  It’s as beautiful as it sounds.  It has lightly snowed all day, while we’ve gathered in front of a fire and played games, read books, discussed politics, and since about an hour ago, enjoyed pre-batched cocktails that Adam whipped up yesterday.  

It really is a serene setting.  

The house is super quirky as it was originally built in the late 1700’s and has been added on to several times.  First a kitchen.  Then a family room.  Then a mud room.  Then a game room, that eventually connected the house with the barn that was built the same time as the house.  

It’s chilly, and squeaky, and has all the charm you’d think.  There is plenty of room to spread out.  I’m upstairs in an office nook.  Several people are playing ping pong.  Adam and a couple of helpers are prepping for lesbian taco night.  More about that some other time.  

Like I said, It was awesome to know that I could take the weekend off, without being beaten up, asked why I needed time off, or be given a guilt trip about why I needed to be a the work. I get two days off a week, and I just scheduled those days to be yesterday and today. 

And here we are.  

The only real funny part of the trip, is when we got here, we discovered that the owner is a huge fan of a past administration, my friends and I don’t support.  There are photos, and books, and articles, and even an official White House statement about someone who received a pardon for campaign finance convctions.  

None of this really matters to us, as the money is already spent, and there wasn’t much to do when we got here.  However, had we looked closer at the photos in the posting on Air BNB, we might have seen the photos.  

That being said, it’s truly nice to get away, and hang out with our chosen family, and share meals, and laugh.  

It feels really good to laugh. 

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